逃不出老习惯de 恶性循环 revolutionise your reaction tactics!

创意人生

麦兜说： 心情不好的时候， 那就上厕所， 上完之后， 面部狰狞的对着马桶说：“你给我吃屎吧你!" 然后猛冲厕所。

McDull said: when you feel angry or bad, please rush to the toilet, pass a piece of shit, then shout towards the bowl:" YOU EAT MY SHIT!!!!" followed by flushing forcefully.

多么创意且时尚的疗伤技巧。
管不管用？

what a revolutionary way to heal yourself, does it work for you?

面对人生不如意的十常八九，
你是否也惯性地处理， 以憎恨面对， 储存，
这种毒榴弹， 赶紧冲下马桶吧。


面对同样的人，同样的环境，
你依然用着同样的语气，同样的方式，
人，环境，语气， 方式， 变吗。。。。


面对人生不如意的十常八九，
你是否也惯性地， 重复地问了无数遍的为什么， 
。。。。。


面对人生不如意的十常八九，
你领会到了。。。。
你以崭新的方式面对。。。。
方便了自己，方便了别人，


放不开？放不开是因为你缺乏创意罢了。

Live is full of uncertainty, is unsatisfactory.
What do you used to do when you face these?
The same old way? with anger? keep inside yourself?
This kind of bad aura, better get rid of it the same way McDull did it. " YOU EAT MY SHIT !!! " then let it be taken away.

Facing these uncertainties, imperfection.
Overdoing by asking why why why? think about it.


The same guy, same situation, same interaction, same way.
Once one of the old things changes, here we go, the extra-ordinary revolution.

Facing these uncertainties, imperfection.
You need a revolutionary way to react to it.
To put yourself at ease, and also the others.

Cannot fulfill? it just that you have not been creative, think out of the box.

心，惯性， 时善时恶。  多点善， 心就容不下一点恶。 多行善， 时间就容不下恶行。


认识， 信服， 方便， 自在。 

The inner you, the same old reaction tactics, good at times, evil at times.
Cultivate and filled with good will, so that evil one got nowhere to grow. Your heart is this much.
So is time.

Discover, Understand, Let GO, freedom like a bird.

不要再质疑医生的能力了， 说话比推销员还溜呢。

 

 过时了， 过时了， 再问下去就过时了。

　生活也是这么普普通通。。。

懒惰， 是因为心还没有寄托， 没有归宿。

CHAUVINISM 深！ 大男人主义

或大， 或小， 幸福都归你掌。

 大男人呀， 大男人。

曾经何时，三从四德重新被列在结婚证书里？

友人告诉我“女人旺不旺夫“是大男人主义。

成全他人向来都被视为一种美德， 更何况那他人，无他， 就是自己的至亲。

大男人主义只是世人给它灌上的罪名。

迷糊了它本来的美德。

爱只有无私的时候，最真， 最美， 最舒服，最珍贵。。。。

当我， 助长我， 膨胀我， 一切以我。。。。咳。。。 

旺夫与不旺夫都不会少块肉。

是好是坏， 都依然自在。

MALE CHAUVINISM, have you heard of this word. i only learned it today.

i learned this word from a fren. When i post an article stating whereby a wife with certain horoscope is best in help the husband to become wealthy, the comment was chauvinistic....

isn't it a good value to have to be able to fulfill or complete others need? 

Moreover, this other person is somebody closest to us. 

This chauvinism thing might exist once in this world but rarely in this longing for equality world now hopefully, at least not her hubby.

when something is exaggerated, even good value will have an evil taste. There true nature will be obscured. This phenomenon happens in many occasions.

selfless and self-centred. need a lot of self-conscious to see.

however, good or bad, happy or sad is always up to oneself to decide, not even the closest one can't decide if you do not let them to.

 

开心有时， 悲伤有时

 

笑有时，哭有时

 感动有时，温馨有时， 吵闹有时， 安静有时。

安静的爱

简单， 平淡， 悠哉悠哉的爱情， 又有多少人懂得欣赏。

好久好久都没听的一首好歌，
忽然之间听到一句，“给你的爱一直很安静“，和我现在的心情很吻合。


安静的爱着， 虽然激情不多， 淡淡的， 更能显得难得清淡。
怕只怕爱人以为感情淡的， 非也非也。


激情呀， 激情， 爱情会铭心刻苦， 时时刻刻。。。
安静呀， 安静， 爱情已经悄悄进到心里了， 秘密渗入。。。


人生责任太多，生病了也不放心。
"我要回去了， 回去为爱人做饭"， 虽然只是例常简单的动作， 也蛮有意思的。
没什么特别， 但谢谢你记得我需要吃饭。

 it has been a long long time i have not heard this song.
suddenly the phrase “给你的爱一直很安静“ fitted  so well.

Love softly, might not be always memorable, but just kill me softly with your love
sometimes softly might be misinterpreted

Passionate love, will be memorable, too frequent........
Gently, love sips deep inside the heart quietly......

We live with all our responsibilities, thinking fulfilling them even when we are sick.
"I need to go back now, go back to cook for my love one", this kind of gentle passion, can you feel it?
But thanks for remembering i will get hungry.

非诚勿扰： 最好不相见 - 舒淇 Love me deeply or else keep your distance

非常写实的一部影片

这不是太新的影片。
一开始时， 没有对这一部片子没太多的感觉。
非诚勿扰，
与一个中国相亲节目同名， 我对这节目的模式很反感，
所以没刻意去看着一部影片，
在一次偶然，电视上播了， 看了一半才懂， 差一点点儿错过了

非诚勿扰2 里头的歌曲，
唱出了爱情世界的无奈，
爱死我了。

〈〈小燕之夜：女神谈恋爱的代价〉〉
张小燕， 太适合主持感性节目， 可以把你不由自主而又赤裸裸地呈现在她面前， 侃侃而谈。
节目尾声，吟一首诗结尾， 太绝了。

你见或者不见我
我就在那里 不悲不喜

你念或者不念我
情就在那里 不来不去

你爱或者不爱我
爱就在那里 不增不减

你跟或者不跟我
我的手就在你手里  不舍不弃

来我怀里或让我住进你的心里
蓦然相爱 极尽欢喜

This is not a too recently available movie.
At first, i did not pay much attention to this movie because of its title.
It uses the same title as one of a match making episode in China which i dislike.
Out of a sudden, this movie was showed on TV, Oh My God, almost missed.....

the song from this movie,
marvelous,
irresistible

〈the night with little YAN: For the goddess to be in love, what's the price needed to pay〉
the host, zhang, is fantastic, a good host for sentimental event, peeling the deepest part of you.
she ended the event with a poem, excellent match.

Whether you see me or see me not,
i'll always be there, would not feel sad or happy

Whether you think of me or think of me not,
the thought is there, not moving in or out

Whether you love me or love me not,
my love is there, not more not less

Whether you follow me or follow me not,
my hand will always hold your hand, never leave

Come to me or let me into you,
loving each other, endless happiness.

一听就来了

你的LOLLIPOP是什么味道的？

好经典的前奏

刘家昌词曲， 尤雅演唱

只要為你活一天　這是我心願
只要為你活一天　這是我心願
別再讓我心傷感　明知割不斷
為什麼要讓此恨綿綿
只要為你活一天　這是我心願
只要為你活一天　這是我心願
有多少愛的懷念　藏在我心坎
如果要要忘了你千難萬難
別再讓我心傷感　明知割不斷
為什麼要讓此恨綿綿

偶尔听听经典歌曲， 回忆就涌上来了。 是甜是咸是酸是苦的。

也许你没听过原唱， 但你总会记得“功夫“里应用了这歌曲的前奏。

有没有不小心触碰到了你旧患还是重温美梦？ 

WAY BACK INTO LOVE

静静听歌，今晚只想让甜蜜自然流露。。。。
这是Janice 和 李治廷的版本。

Way Back into Love - Hugh Grant

I've been living with a shadow overhead
I've been sleeping with a cloud above my bed
I've been lonely for so long
Trapped in the past, I just can't seem to move on

I've been hiding all my hopes and dreams away
Just in case I ever need em again someday
I've been setting aside time
To clear a little space in the corners of my mind

All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can't make it through without a way back into love
Oh oh oh

I've been watching but the stars refuse to shine
I've been searching but I just don't see the signs
I know that it's out there
There's got to be something for my soul somewhere

I've been looking for someone to shed some light
Not somebody just to get me through the night

I could use some direction
And I'm open to your suggestions

All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can't make it through without a way back into love
And if I open my heart again
I guess I'm hoping you'll be there for me in the end
oh, oh, oh, oh, oh

There are moments when I don't know if it's real
Or if anybody feels the way I feel
I need inspiration
Not just another negotiation

All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can't make it through without a way back into love
And if I open my heart to you
I'm hoping you'll show me what to do
And if you help me to start again
You know that I'll be there for you in the end
oh, oh, oh, oh, oh 

将甜蜜洒满你身边

 

買你 Is your sorrow ON SALE? (2)

缺少了简单， 不懂得如何快乐生活。

欸， 可不可以买你的不快乐？


朋友说‘买你‘这首歌，歌曲不是很好听， 没有为他带来太多好感。红不起来。


我想是我词不达意， 没有吧这歌的重点点到。


我在一边听了这首歌，重新找回它给我的浪漫感动。


我喜欢的是这首歌歌词的意境， 简单的想法， 简单的处理方式。  在你的朋友人生当中， 遇到挫折或不顺遂时， 与其像以往的我一直为他分析， 解释， 大道理贴大道理的望他耳朵塞， 这些他都不需要， 不如看着他不快乐， 不问为什么， 只轻轻要求“欸， 可不可以买你的不快乐？“。如果还不够， 抱一下就好。


可能这就是长大了的代价， 面子的代价， 再也找不回的简单童言童语。 不太合理， 但却很窝心。


hey, is your sorrow on sale?

my fren said "buy yours" this song is not nice, nothing in it that will make it popular.

probably, i did not do my job well, i did not highlight the unique of this song and why i recommend it.

i listen to it more properly today again, still finding it unique and why i'm so touched.

i like the way the lyric was written, a very simple way of presentation, simple solution to complexity in life. Whenever we have a fren who is down for any reason, rather than trying to explain, interrogate, forcing our theory into his brain where i used to do (these might not be what he expected anyway), why not we just tap on his shoulder and say, "hey fren, let me hug away your pain?" more warmth hugs if he wants more. Too much of talking would not make things better anyway.

this is the price we paid for being a grown-up, leaving the simple, childish thinking behind our back. Although a lot of times it sounds silly and yet we are drawn so near to each other.

野草不除，花儿不生。 悲伤不诛， 快乐不增。

快乐似雪花， 轻盈地空中飞舞， 只要时间对了。