Friday 15 July 2011

CHAUVINISM 深! 大男人主义


或大, 或小, 幸福都归你掌。


 大男人呀, 大男人。
曾经何时,三从四德重新被列在结婚证书里?

友人告诉我“女人旺不旺夫“是大男人主义。

成全他人向来都被视为一种美德, 更何况那他人,无他, 就是自己的至亲。
大男人主义只是世人给它灌上的罪名。
迷糊了它本来的美德。
爱只有无私的时候,最真, 最美, 最舒服,最珍贵。。。。
当我, 助长我, 膨胀我, 一切以我。。。。咳。。。 
旺夫与不旺夫都不会少块肉。
是好是坏, 都依然自在。

MALE CHAUVINISM, have you heard of this word. i only learned it today.
i learned this word from a fren. When i post an article stating whereby a wife with certain horoscope is best in help the husband to become wealthy, the comment was chauvinistic....

isn't it a good value to have to be able to fulfill or complete others need? 
Moreover, this other person is somebody closest to us. 
This chauvinism thing might exist once in this world but rarely in this longing for equality world now hopefully, at least not her hubby.

when something is exaggerated, even good value will have an evil taste. There true nature will be obscured. This phenomenon happens in many occasions.

selfless and self-centred. need a lot of self-conscious to see.
however, good or bad, happy or sad is always up to oneself to decide, not even the closest one can't decide if you do not let them to.

 
开心有时, 悲伤有时

 
笑有时,哭有时


 感动有时,温馨有时, 吵闹有时, 安静有时。


4 comments:

  1. 吃饭有时,不吃饭也有时;
    请客有时,再请客也有时。。。
    听得懂吗?

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  2. 懂, 所以你几时又要请客了?

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  3. 猪头换了姓还是猪头;
    大便换了名还是大便。

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  4. 哦, 那你必定是左不改姓右不改名的猪头大便, 失敬失敬。

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